Barack and Michelle Obama Address Divorce Rumors

CHICAGO, ILLINOIS - OCTOBER 29: Former U.S. President Barack Obama and his wife Michelle close the Obama Foundation Summit together on the campus of the Illinois Institute of Technology on October 29, 2019 in Chicago, Illinois. The Summit is an annual event hosted by the Obama Foundation.
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In a candid and lighthearted display, former President Barack Obama and former First Lady Michelle Obama jointly debunked longstanding divorce rumors this week. The couple appeared together on the latest episode of Michelle’s podcast, IMO (In My Opinion), which she hosts with her brother Craig Robinson. This marks the first time they have publicly addressed the swirling speculation as a united front.

Rumors Meet Humor

The playful exchange began when Robinson quipped, “Wait, you guys like each other?” as Barack joined the conversation. Michelle responded with a sly, “Oh yeah, the rumor mill.” Barack chimed in, saying, “She took me back. It was touch and go for a while.” The light tone quickly shifted to warmth, as Michelle declared, “There hasn’t been one moment in our marriage where I’ve thought about quitting on my man.”

Later in the episode, Michelle reflected on the ups and downs they’ve faced over 30 years. “We’ve had some really hard times and a lot of fun times,” she said. “I have become a better person because of the man I’m married to.” Barack responded jokingly, “Don’t make me cry now,” underscoring their mutual affection.

Why the Rumors Began

The rumors gained momentum earlier this year after Michelle opted out of several high-profile events, including the funeral for former President Jimmy Carter and President Trump’s second inauguration. Her absences, some speculate, sparked unfounded divorce chatter. But Michelle attributed these choices to personal preference. She clarified that for the first time since their daughters grew up, she felt “completely free” to decide whether to attend public events.

Barack added that he hadn’t even noticed the rumors, joking about his blissful ignorance while immersed in his work.

A Message of Unity

Throughout the episode, the Obamas emphasized both their individuality and commitment. Michelle noted that when they aren’t together, “folks think we’re divorced.” She also acknowledged that the speculation has deeper implications. In previous interviews, she pointed out that assumptions about their marriage reflect broader societal biases, especially around expectations for women to always tag along.

Their joint appearance wasn’t just about quelling rumors. It showcased the strength of their bond and their willingness to share vulnerability. “We’ve had some really hard times,” Michelle said. “But divorce was never a consideration.”